Stephen A. Smith built his career on bold, unapologetic takes, usually in the realm of sports. When he sticks to what he knows, his commentary is entertaining, insightful, and sharp. But when he steps outside of that arena and ventures into politics and social issues, he stumbles — often spectacularly. His latest tirade about the…
Understanding Cult Mindsets Misinformation today isn’t just an annoyance — it’s a weapon, meticulously designed to shape belief systems and keep us divided. When I created my Boogie Down Scholar video on Breaking Free from Cult Mindsets, a wave of dread hit me. The more I dug into the topic, the clearer it became that…
I recently watched a TikTok that really got to me. It was not the usual clickbait or exaggerated outrage we often scroll past. This video, from @brendonfreakinglemon, was a blunt and honest take on where America is politically—and it hit me harder than I expected. The speaker, clearly frustrated and tired, described a nation where…
I Miss You Grandma Ever heard the phrase “Kiss My Grits”? It’s a nostalgic Southern expression meaning “Take a hike” or “I’m not putting up with your nonsense.” I first heard it from my grandmother, a proud South Carolinian who raised me in the Southeast Bronx while my mother worked long hours. My grandmother, a…
I am a big fantasy movie nerd. I do not agree with all of Rowling’s views. “Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light”. This iconic quote from Dumbledore in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban resonates deeply when reflecting on gratitude during…
Have you Ever Heard of Martin Niemöller? Do you know Martin Niemöller? I referenced him in one of my previous posts. His name might not leap off the page like a Roosevelt or a King, but his story carries a weight that demands our attention – especially right now. It’s a story of transformation—of a…
Introduction Throughout history, progress has often been met with resistance, and the United States is no exception. The battle for equality, justice, and democracy has not only shaped the country’s past but continues to define its present. Yet, in recent years-months-weeks-days, we have witnessed a disturbing trend: a desire to roll back the rights our…
This post-election period has me feeling a blend of emotions—anger, frustration, but above all, hurt. After several drafts, wrestling with the urge to let my language roam free (lol), I’ve found a place of clarity. Sometimes, a bitter wake-up call is necessary, and this election was one of those moments. It’s not a time to…
Growing up, I saw firsthand what it means to face barriers—and to find ways around them. Those living in low-income communities can be incredibly resilient and resourceful. Those experiences, unbeknownst to me at the time, shaped my commitment to education and to creating systems that work for everyone [capital E], especially in higher education. The…
The Epidemic of Deceit We are about to have an important election, and the country has to make a choice that goes beyond traditional party preferences. It’s not just about politics; the truth is being attacked in ways that have never been seen before in modern American history—full stop. The book “Invisible Rulers: The People…
I used to work out regularly and am trying to get back into it. A year and half ago, I had an injury to my adductor brevis muscle, during a run of the mill Jiu-Jitsu rolling session. Sidelined me for an extended period. I remember as I healed how I would compensate for this injury…
On Mother’s Day, we celebrate the extraordinary women who have shaped our lives through their unwavering love, wisdom, and resilience. It’s a day filled with appreciation for the countless sacrifices made by mothers worldwide. I wanted to create space to pay homage to the women who not only raised their children with little resources but…
In higher education, we are encountering two significant challenges: burnout and attrition in student services roles. These dedicated professionals are crucial in enhancing the educational experience, so it is essential to prioritize their well-being and satisfaction for the benefit of students. This piece will revisit these subjects, analyze the causes of burnout, and propose practical strategies…
In a previous blog post, I introduced and began to explore the concept of the Incongruent Campus-Conference Persona (ICCP), a term I’ve coined to encapsulate the dichotomy observed in professional behavior, especially within the higher education sector. This reflection builds upon those initial thoughts, delving deeper into the implications of ICCP behaviors and the strategies…
Today, I pay tribute to the revered Reverend Martin Luther King Jr. by drawing upon his unique ability to recognize and provide insightful criticism of events that are frequently misinterpreted or ignored. He was more than just the person who could deliver the “I Have a Dream” speech. That is the version that is more…
The Unseen Influences in Our Workplace Imagine a scenario: Alex, an enthusiastic and experienced professional, recently joined the Fraternity and Sorority Life Department at a prestigious university as an Assistant Director. Brimming with ideas and a commitment to diversity and inclusion, Alex was eager to contribute to the department. However, Alex soon encountered an unexpected…
In the world of college sports, there are few names as legendary as Joe Paterno. For over half a century, he held an unshakable grip over Penn State University’s football program, a place affectionately known as “Happy Valley.” However, it became evident between March and November of 2011 that ‘Happy Valley’ wasn’t so joyful for…
In a world where stereotypes of masculinity often prioritize strength and aggression, the importance of male wellness, encompassing physical, mental, and spiritual well-being, has been overshadowed. However, it is crucial to acknowledge that toxic masculinity not only harms children and women but also negatively impacts males themselves. Growing up, I, too, was exposed to these…
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone’s advice didn’t quite resonate with you? Perhaps it was a mentor, a colleague, or even a supervisor. I recall past encounters that left me pondering the complexities of leadership and the underlying factors that shape our perceptions of worthy leaders. This experience, coupled with the…
The question of whether to professionalize the Florida State Legislature has been a hot topic in the world of politics. This debate involves increasing lawmaker pay, regulating outside employment, and potentially turning the Legislature into a full-time body. Yet, the concept is met with mixed feelings as some fear it may lead to the “big-government…